#1 Best Motivational Speech By Will Smith - Very Powerful Speech Ever
99% of people are not willing to do,
what it takes to make their dreams come true.
The Marines have a saying:
"Everybody wants to go to heaven, but nobody wants to die"
The center of bringing any dream
into fruition is self-discipline.
You know, something as simple as
food and eating... it's not about your body as much as it is about your mind. It's
getting command of your mind to be able to choose actions that are in your own
best interest. Every day we are choosing shit that's not in our own best
interest.
So if the world is attacking you and
the world wants to fight you and the world's trying to hold you down. So you're
gonna kick yourself in the balls. So you will stop yourself from getting what
you dream. And I think the word "discipline" has kind of gotten a bad
name.
We think about it in terms of
punishment. I'm not talking about discipline in that way.
I'm talking about discipline in the sense that you forego the immediate pleasure for the exchange of long-term
self-respect.
I believe that self-discipline is
the definition of self-love that when you say that you love yourself
that means that you have behavior
towards yourself. That is loving Self-discipline is the center of all material
success.
You cannot win the war against the world if you can't win the war against your own mind.
Self-love is when you say to
yourself Man, look I know you and that girl got a real connection
I know y'all vibe, but Yes, your
girl's cousin.
So I love you too much to let you do that It's like you say to yourself a man
look I know you want to eat that pizza and it'll be really good, you know, but
I can't let you eat that man cuz if you eat that pizza, you're gonna feel like You know, and I just I love you
too much to let you eat that Self-love is a look.
I know you got a test on
Monday, you know and I know you really want to go out with your friends and
Saturday night you want to go out but If you fail that test, you're not gonna
feel good about yourself You know, I just I love you too much to let you go out
tonight
Self-discipline is Self-love if you
wanna be happy you have to love yourself Which means you have to discipline
your behavior, the road, Sustained, happiness is through Disciplining your
behavior. We tend to base our self-esteem on what other people think and That's
not really Self-esteem self-esteem supposed to be how we feel about ourselves and
I was just saying how dangerous it is to allow other people to determine how
you're going to feel about you and it's kind of like looking into a broken
mirror.
You're gonna look in a broken mirror
and then change your face to try to look good in this defiled busted broken
mirror and it just other people's opinions. There's a really shit way to
determine how we feel about ourselves. It doesn't matter whose fault it is that
something is broken if it's your responsibility to fix it
For example, it's not somebody's
fault if their father was an abusive alcoholic.
But it's for damn sure there
responsibility to figure out how they're gonna do with those traumas and try to
make a living out of it It's not your fault if your partner cheated and ruined
your marriage
But it is for damn sure your
responsibility to figure out how to take that pain and how to overcome that and
build a happy life for yourself.
Fault and responsibility do not go
together. It sucks, but they don't. When something is somebody's fault we want
them to suffer.
We want them punished. We want them
to pay. We want it to be their responsibility to fix it
but that's not how it works,
especially when it's your heart.
Your heart, your life, your
happiness is your responsibility and your responsibility alone
As long as we're pointing the finger
and stuck in whose fault Something is we're jammed and trapped into victim mode
when you're in victim mode. You're stuck in suffering the road to power is in
taking responsibility. Your heart your life your happiness is your
responsibility and your responsibility alone.
Do you make a person smile you can
make a person feel good you can make a person laugh
but whether or not a person is happy
is Deeply and totally and utterly out of your control
The prerequisite for spending time
with any person is that they nourish and inspire you
They feed your flame. Look at your
last five text messages.
Are those people feeding your flames
or dousing your fire?
Put your phone down for just a
second and look around Look to the people around you
Are those people throwing logs on
your fire or they pissing on it?
I want my life, I want my work, my
family.
I wanted to mean something and it's
like it has if you are not making someone else's life better than you're
wasting your time.
The separation of talent and skill
is one of the the the greatest misunderstood concepts for people who are trying
to excel who have dreams that want to do things.
Talent you have naturally. Skill is
only developed by hours and hours and hours of beating on your craft.
You don't try to build a wall.
You don't set out to build a wall.
You don't say I'm the biggest, worst, greatest wall that's ever been built.
You don't start there.
You say I'm gonna lay this brick as
perfectly as a brick can be laid. There will not be one brick on the face of
the earth that's gonna be lay better than this brick; that I'm gonna lay in
this next 10 minutes. And you do that every single day. And soon you have a
wall and I think psychologically the advantage that gives me over over a
lot of people that I have been in competition within different situations is it's
difficult to take the first step when you look at how big the task.
The definition of Who I am is very
clear to me and it also redefines who I want to be in that I
know for a fact that I'm stronger
then I thought I was you know, you can't help but ask yourself the question.
What would I do if I was in?
I'm motivated by fear. I hate Scared
abuse on And I think what developed Was the attitude that I started
attacking things. I was scared
Why were you scared in your bed the
night before?
Why did you what do you need that
fear for just don't go?
Why are you scared in your bed 16
hours before you jump? Why are you scared in the car?
Why could you not enjoy breakfast?
Fear is Fear of what you're nowhere
near the airplane if we think up to the stepping out
There's actually no reason to be
scared. It only just ruins your day
You're you don't have to jump and
then at that moment all of a sudden where you should be terrified is the most
blissful Experience of your life and God place the best things in life on the
another side of terror English.
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